Traveling: People Along the Path


We are fellow travelers, you and I, each taking different roads, riding in different vehicles, and following different itineraries. Some travel at a leisurely pace, others are destination driven. Whatever our style, we all meet people along the way, which can be a bane or a blessing.

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People can fill us or drain us, enrich us or deplete us. Either way, they’re unavoidable and part of God’s plan for our journey. Did I just hear a collective sigh? I could respond with comments about setting parameters or suggest possible purposes why God put them in our path, but instead, let’s look in a different direction.

Am I a blessing to the people along my path—all of them, not just friends and A-listers?

Our son David has taught me a lot about accepting people. David is disabled, a 38-year-old child with an uncomplicated, trusting view of everyone he meets. He embraces strangers and kisses the hands of waitresses. He is never put off by class, needs, or ethnicity. Like his dad, a stranger is simply a friend he’s not yet met.

And David prays for everyone—the sad, the sick, the troubled, the teen, the imprisoned, the addicted, the challenged, and those on the front page of the newspaper. On David’s life journey, each person he sees (whether or not he’s introduced) is worthy of his friendship and intercession. I think disabled is a relative term.

When I grow up, I want to be like David.

“A new command I give you: Love one another.

As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

John 13:34

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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. patty
    Nov 07, 2018 @ 20:36:12

    well said



  2. Diane Houtsms
    Nov 08, 2018 @ 17:08:57

    Me too! In so many ways David is more enabled than disabled. The wonderful person you are shows through in your compelling writing style, Barb. Thank you for sharing these bits of wisdom, love and grace from your life. Makes me feel like we are still close to each other.



    • Barbara
      Nov 08, 2018 @ 19:11:05

      Yes, Diane, after I hit “publish” my inner editor goes to work and I thought I should have asked if David is disabled or enabled!
      We are still close, thanks to the strong bonds formed during fellowship days. I love those memories.



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